Hello, I'm new here. :)

[Davide]

Sounds like you have a good plan in place for visitation.

You need to keep working on detaching from him. Don't try to explain anything to him. Don't remind him that he left, he already knows this.

I think it was Steve85 who wrote this.

The key to DBing is to 1) prepare yourself no matter what the future holds 2) remove all pursuit and pressure from the WAS to try to coax them to get curious about why that went away and come looking 3) to not remind them of what they have stated they want or how they feel

I feel like that is a great encapsulation of what you need to be doing. (me too)