We met today with a mediator. She was supposed to provide and document the amount of OUR money she spent on her house, so we could divide up the marital pie, finish the settlement agreement, and finalize this divorce. That is the last piece of the puzzle, and the only reason we didn't finish the settlement agreement when we met with the mediator two weeks ago.
Well, she's full of excuses as to why she didn't have the number. She's known she needed to come up with this number for 18 months. I can't even begin to express how frustrated, angry, and upset I am at her failure to provide it.
She has been consistent in expressing a desire to get divorced. I don't want to get divorced, but absent any indications she wants to reconcile, accept that it's time to move on. But she just won't do anything to move it forward unless I push her.
I'd like to send her an email expressing my frustration and saying basically "Why the f^%$ are you dragging your ass when you're the one who wants to get divorced?!?!?!" in the nicest possible way.
I'm really at the point where I am done waiting, and want a resolution one way or the other.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
