Hi Zues!

Can I ask an honest question?

I see you doing so well, so I think this is a good time to ask it.

Which life do you think would be healthier? (I would say happier and healthier, but I know how you feel about happiness in regards to marriage)

this life you live now, as a single dad raising your kids, enjoying your hobbies and working, or....

Being in the marriage you were in at and before bomb drop. Saying your wife stayed just to honor her vows, but she had no intentions of changing.

Aside from all the morals.....

Which life would you rather live? Which do you think would have been healthier for you or healthier for or for the kids?