Is it realistic to expect myself to have fully detached in just 2 months post BD?
Detachment is a struggle no matter how much time has passed. The 2 month mark is about when I started really doing detachment well. That is when I really started not letting the things she said and did affect me emotionally. I didn't react to it. No matter how cold she said stuff. My WW was never mean or tried to hurt me, she just said things coldly. Since she didn't care how what she said affected me, I started not caring what she said.
So is it realistic? Depends. Is it possible? Certainly.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
