So, just talked to her. She was not in a great mood...and my emotions kind of got the better of me.
She mentioned that our son is with her 95% of the time, to which I responded that it wasn't true because he's always at sitters when she's either working or (doing other things that have made me bitter, to which she was offended that I'm bitter about her sex life...).
I told her I didn't care what she was doing, because it doesn't really matter.
Our son has a psychologist appointment Monday. She does not want me present (even though they recommend that we both be present). Why? Because she doesn't feel comfortable talking to me.
I told her I could drive myself to the appointment so we didn't have to ride in the same car. She said she still didn't want me there, and asked if I thought I was being respectful of her by saying I could show up anyway...I said "it's disrespectful to ask me not to attend my son's doctor's appointment".
Anyway, we tried to calm it down. Or at least, I did. She maintained that we "can't talk right now" and she indicated that in the future...maybe we could.
So I asked if she would be open to a counseling session together.
She said "I am not open to it at this time. I have too much going on between now and when school starts. But maybe when it slows down, maybe."
At least that's not a "no".
She still hasn't mentioned the divorce.
It almost seems to me that she's doing her own version of "taking a break" from the relationship. And yes. I'm very, very bitter about her sex life. I do try to keep my mouth shut, and stay positive, but sometimes it's really difficult.
What I'm wondering is this...is it possible that as a WW she is just "taking a break" but doing it the hard (for me) way? Does it sound like she's maaaaaybe considering trying to R at some point?
I didn't ask her to R. I only mentioned MC to get to where we could talk without as much risk of fighting.
At least she seems to be willing to consider it, but not when I'm ready...but when she's ready.
