Thanks for clarifying the stupid mistakes that I had a feeling I had made. Apart from this bad text exchange I think Ive done really well this week avoiding family time when she has requested it.

She called me again today to discuss D10s birthday presents, and asked if all four of us could go on a family walk tomorrow. I automatically said yes, but having had some time to reflect I now know I again have to decline. I want my family back together all the time, not just when it suits her. So I am going to decline, not sure how to say it yet, but if she pushes for a reason I will say I have decided to let go.

D10 will be staying with me overnight tomorrow, so I will simply go and pick her up when shes ready, instead of playing fake happy families all day with my WW.

LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18
D 11 S 14
BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18
3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18
I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes)
...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!