Steve, thank you thank you thank you!! This is what I wanted to boost my energy. Kill with Kindness is so perfectly said. I am framing that and putting it up on my mind's mantel to keep reminding myself of it for a long time to come.
Originally Posted By: Steve85
Remember, kill him with kindness. When he is unfriendy, you remain friendly. When he is angry you remain calm. When he responds with derision you respond with softness. Likely he is wanting you to snap back, be angry, and return his derision. Then in his mind he can be "we aren't getting along, this is the right decision!"
For now I have decided to consider H as my 3rd child throwing extreme tantrums. I have infinite patience for my babies, H needs that too right now. If he continues with D process I cannot stop it but I will not abet it either.
