W finally texted me again. First one was "Kids?" Followed by, "Do I need to stop by unannouced. I've tried texting my way and your way and you won't respond. Good job. I guess you're telling the kids I don't want to see them too.". I didn't have muy phone on me when she texted. When I saw the texts I sent back "didn't have my phone on me S has a game tonight at 6:45 and D has a game at 8:30" She sent back "so you haven't had your phone for a week or just today?" I said just the past few hours. Then i get "why haven't you answered my calls or texts? You know if I'm trying to get ahold of you I want to see the kids. I also need the birth certificates I paid for" I sent back "Because you were just asking for money. As much as I'd like to help, that's not my job anymore" Her - "I like how you say you'd like to help. I wanted money to do stuff to the van bc it needs maintenance. Unless you want to give me the title." This is a bunch of BS because if you remember, she was asking for money to pay her gas bill and put gas in the van. I sent back "If you want to communicate about the kids just send a text and be specific about what you want." Her - "I just told you what I wanted. The birth certificates, the title to the van, and to see the kids. I'm tired of you acting like I haven't been clear with you". I'm not sure what world she's been living in, but she has not been clear with me at all until now. Wayward Wife Land sure is an interesting place...
It certainly is. This is all so manipulative. All she has to do is text: "I want to see my kids, please contact me back so we can set that up."
But as you wisely pointed out, that wasn't her end goal. Even after you called her out then she switched it to "I want to see the kids and get my van's title, and the birth certs." Huh? That isn't what she said originally.
What is the story on the birth certificates? What her end game on that?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018