Yes Davide, I agree that 2 and 3 are related. But I thought it was important in this case to point out that 3 is important because we sometimes think we can "hint" our WAS into wanting to come back. So we try subtlety to get them to "think" about what they are doing. lusa was being subtle (but still obvious) in his "I think you'll be like that as a grandma too".

But really what he was doing was reminding the WAW that she doesn't want to be co-grandparents with him right now. That being a warm, kind, solid type of person isn't who she wants to be right now. While it WAS pursuit, it was more just a bad idea because it made his WAW start to think about how she feels towards being "sensible" right now.

So yes 2 and 3 can be combined. Pursuit is reminding them of how they feel. Reminding them of how they feel IS pursuit. Good observation.

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