Hi Nicole, I understand you wanting to find a glimmer of hope in any given scenario. Your H not mentioning D is a positive, but he is not even remotely close to the H you deserve or a father your daughter ought to have. He needs to prove himself to you a thousand times over for what he has done so far. Keep strong. Hugs to both you and your D.
This is good advice. And it something that I look back at my sitch and wonder if I set enough requirements for R or not. As LBSs we sometimes are too eager to R without our S doing what they need to do, and it means we risk being right back in the same sitch in the future.
Nicole, don't make it effortless for him to return to the MR.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018