has it occurred to you that she could be temp checking? that she could be interested but still not ready to commit? that this could be a false start? what she is doing does not seem confusing to me...
i don't see her throwing herself at you... i don't see her wanting you to take the lead... you took the lead twice and she did not follow... the concert and Vegas... those were two opportunities where she could have taken your lead... she did not...
give it time and space... go do your thing... do not be available to hang out with her as she is gardening... don't hang out with her at home, watching a movie, drinking tequila... go do real stuff on your own... when the opportunity presents itself--not today--invite her to go out and do something together... see if she accepts... but wait a bit... and as you are waiting, keep GAL...
