Gordie you sound OK. Glad to see that. You are in limbo a place I know too well and one I hoped you would avoid. But you have decided that it is the best path for you. Maybe it is. I just wanted to drop upi a few lines yo let you know I am still on team gordie.

I haven't read everything but I hope you have some AWESOMEpplans for new fun stuff ahead. Something to get excited about and look forward to. Being in limbo doesn't mean you being stuck.

I'll be back when I can. Until then best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together