I hear your struggles annoyances and stress of the ongoing situationbiy mostly I see a strong you in a relatively good positionheadinh towards a better way of life. I say relative because it isn't a good situationand isn't what you wanted.
Chin up, keep going. Better times are ahead
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together