Originally Posted By: ballast
Well W is off on another trip sometime today. No idea her flight info, don't care either. Desperate attempt to escape reality. Good luck with that. Should allow me to have several days of non-drama with D at the marital house so that's a positive.

On a side question...post divorce as even 3 months in, this seems inevitable. What are folks thoughts on dating someone who still resides in the marital home they had with their EW? Is that a for sure deal breaker for some, not a big deal given the realities of divorce? I likely could keep the marital home, BUT my worry becomes in the future if I were to want to date, would that creep out any perspective new ladies. The catch is that my D knows the residence as HER house so again the dilemma and question. I know I'm long ways from this, but I am trying to get some clarity on my stance should what seems inevitable come to pass.


Nope not at all.

Depends if the guy is free to be with me and not mooning after his ex.

And for 18 months it's dating.

Anyway if you were dating someone living in their FHM would it bother you? It might if it was a shrine to the ex.

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW