I don't think it's an accident either. I think he's trying to pull you right back into the game of distancer/pursuer. It's not uncommon for them to do this.

Don't say anything to him about it Let him think whatever he wants to about your non-response.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.