Talked to WW on phone around 7 PM, maybe I shouldn't have. First thing, she asks "Where are you"? I said "hanging out". I use this response and the "nothing/nowhere" response as casually as if someone had asked me "what's up".
She wanted to know if I'd move a trailer, I had already agreed so I confirmed I would.
Got home from GAL, was reading and went out to eat w/ my sis. Shower, bed, WW is folding laundry in MB, I get in bed and decide to fold a couple things too. She put some of my clothes away actually. She asks "where are you going out so late". I reply just with friends. She didn't say anything about me getting in bed and she got her pillows out of the other bedroom.
Eventually, kind of late, about an 1.5 hours after I fell asleep she moved to the front bedroom. She was disturbed by a late night notification on my phone, I could feel her turn when it buzzed.
One good thing from GAL w/ my sis: I brought up how WW asked me "how do you do it?" in terms of going to the lake and living my normal life. If she says anything like this again I'm going to remind her that I have been getting help, counseling, reading. I'm not over our situation. I need help rephrasing this so it's not TMI or pursuit.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.