Gerds, I understand, bcs you are dad called me, that you are panicked and can't get involved in a financial meeting. I am sorry you feel overwhelmed. The meeting is free, on the basis of all debt and income documents he determines, while in the office, a new, more efficient path than the one in place, and only then after presenting us with a comparison between option A, the existing approach, and option B, a new approach, we make a choice, and I alone pay his fee, that is, if we agree on following a new path. His specialty is renegotiating with ALL creditors, mortgage, credit cards, personal or business loans, in ways that do not effect our individual credits and it is an omnidimensional but total overarching renegotiating process which terminates in what he said will be an overwhelming drop in financial stress and more financial freedom. If you don't wish to attend Friday, I will need copies of all the last statements from all the creditors and all the documents that verify all upstate and downstate incomes and expenses, as well as last years tax returns. I empathize, whatever their manifold sources, with your feelings of stress, and I could understand why you would not wish to attend. I am asking now that you try to empathize with my oceanic, but eminently reversible, feelings of stress over the desecrate lack of BOTH financial mobility and domestic autonomy that it self evidently takes to be able to find a gentle dash spacious place both in one's heart, for the purpose of finding a gentle dash spacious place in the hearts of my children.
They know their dad as a sad follower.
When with you I uttered a thing before a gov't official yesterday in our living room you turned away into a corner and looked at a wall dash out of an utter sense of embarrassment for your husband and out of a deep hidden certainty that I have no claim to love or truth or insight. She watched you looking away.
