Doll, in my state it's up to the judge, but you have to ask for legal fees to be paid for it to be considered.

Decide what you want, and let him think he's winning on the other points.

In my case, any joint cards meant I was responsible for 1/2 that debt and also the balance adversely affected my credit rating!!!! I never charged anything, but exh maxed out the joint card. Yes, I had to pay and yes my credit took the hit.

My Costco card is a credit card, but I know you can also have a straight membership card. If you're so inclined, I might open a second membership and give him the card just to make him think he's getting something his way. Lose the battle, HaWho, win the war!!!!

xoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver