And still struggling 2

[Jim1234]

Regardless, Nicole is right, as the D becomes more real, that reality will be something your W has to face head on.

Yup, but I doubt she will ever realize that reality is, for the most part, the result of her decision to file and move out. I don't think anyone will point it out to her, I can't tell her because she simply wouldn't hear it, and I doubt she'll figure it out on her own.