Great point about the self-reflection and introspection and the need for something to trigger that. I feel just like you do that BD was my trigger to get my own [censored] together. I dont know that that trigger will ever come for our Ws, or if it does, if it wont happen too late (i.e. after we have moved on.)
Yes BD is a huge wake-up call. MWD covers this really well in her books.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
