Again, DO NOT BELIEVE WHAT SHE SAYS. She snooped on your phone, that is a good thing. She cared enough to want to snoop. Her "this just proves how toxic we are and why we should not be together" is hogwash. There is nothing toxic about spouses wanting to look through their spouses phone. It may not be the healthiest of activities, but then you MR isn't healthy right now.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
