Solid observations here Nicole! I agree, the lunch sounds more like a date than a D logistics meeting. And very good point about the age thing, and the opportunities for men and women of certain ages and prospects for future relationships. In fact, another author I read (not MWD) points out that often WWs will initiate D and then cold feet for the very dynamic you point out. Men seem to move on to post-D relationships much easier than women. IN the US, women make up 50.8% of the population so that might have something to do with it too.
Regardless, Nicole is right, as the D becomes more real, that reality will be something your W has to face head on.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
