Very interesting Steve.

The only time I have met my wife post BD we spoke for an hour and a half and I was calm and collected as she wept repeatedly. She was resolute in saying she didnt want to be married. However, when I brought up selling the house she completely broke down. She said that she wasnt ready to talk about that yet.

I think you are right about the fantasy and reality. I wonder what happens when my W moves out of the house in August and is faced with reality.

(hijacking of thread over. sorry)


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019