The only time I have met my wife post BD we spoke for an hour and a half and I was calm and collected as she wept repeatedly. She was resolute in saying she didnt want to be married. However, when I brought up selling the house she completely broke down. She said that she wasnt ready to talk about that yet.
I think you are right about the fantasy and reality. I wonder what happens when my W moves out of the house in August and is faced with reality.
(hijacking of thread over. sorry)
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019