Steve see that is the challenge. Keeping the house is the absolute best thing for my D, but for me definitely not. There are custody ramifications as well if I choose not to stay as it's a rural area so abundant housing is not available. The question for dating is less important to be honest than what I've just provided. Feels rather like choosing D's best interest or mine.
And yeah, I hear ya. Just in the "preparing for the worst" mindset and the journey to date shows that a wise course of action. Additionally, I need to walk through that scenario so as to have plenty of time to evaluate some major life decisions that I would need to make. For sure til then I'll continue to lovingly detach and GAL for me. The winds they just ain't blowing in the other direction is all.
