The family home is tough. I am moving back into mine in August and I have no idea how I will react. Long term, as much as I love the house, the neighborhood, and the bargain mortgage, I do not see myself establishing a post-D life in the house. Of course, it is easier for me since I dont have any kids. I just dont see how I could move past the "ghosts" and memories in order to construct a new life either by myself or with a new partner.

As Steve said, we are both very early in the process so it is hard to predict how we will feel about these things in 6 months or a year. It is probably best to take it one step at a time.

W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019