It is your call and your boundaries. What are your boundaries right now?
If you feel like it would be healthier to go full NC then do it. A lot of divorce books recommend that in order to fully heal. Are you still trying to DB? There are posters on here who have reconciled after D, so that is not impossible. However, it sounds like your W still has a ton of issues to work through and is a long way from being ready to be in any stable relationship with anyone.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019