I don't think you should use that for a basis of whether you should stay in your house or not. I think it boils down to: can YOU properly move on staying in the house you shared with your W?

Also, I want to caution you on pronouncing D as inevitable. You are 3 months in. Some people linger in limbo for months and years and eventually R. So I wouldn't see D as a forgone conclusion just yet. You have plenty of work to put in and thinking like that will trip you up on your journey.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018