MLC was one of the most difficult situations I have faced so what you are feeling is normal- this is hard You may be doing everything right but your Wife still needs to justify her affair so she will see your 180s as wrong don't let her be the judge of what you are doing-\ We do this work for us In the end, yes it helps her it helps the kids and everyone else but it may not bring them home, and MLC takes a long time so continue doing you- This is out of your hands, her responses or how bad a mother and she is right now do your part, do her part for the kids as best you can- and take care of you- this is temporary and if you continue trying to work on you, only THE BEST will come back to you in one way or another hang in-
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