Thanks for your input.

Im finding it really hard today. The W has not done too much house work this week, not even done the kids pack ups. Its drivingbme crazy and i just vented out to her.

Not good. I want to stay in the same house as my kids, but we are both finding it difficult. I need to start composing myself, im finding it hard to detach.

I am getting a life and going out.