My about to be Exed wife texts me askimg about my move and packing (i am vacating my marital home). I was vague in response. She said that its difficult for the both of us and let her know if i need any help. I said that i was doing fine and that i dont need any help. She calls me later in the evening and casually talks to me and told she liked me for many things but honestly hates me for certain things. I simply listened and we were done with the call. For the past 3 days she is keeping tabs on me and messaging once a day or trying to reach asking me how i was doing and all. Whenever she called i tried to ignore mostly and texted one word responses. She calls me yesterday again and was emotional saying that i am not contesting anything in this marraige (by law i could take upwards 150k from her as she earns more than I) but i simply didnt. I clearly said i dont need it and wished her luck. She said i can take that money even if we are divorced. I said that is beyond one self respect and the last thing i would do even if i die. She started giving me investment advices and how I should handle my money in future and i stopped her right there saying i dont need any advices from her. And said that hopefully that was the last conversation we would have before divorce. She apologized and we hung up the phone. The next day she calls me early morning at 5 , i didnt pick up and she left a text saying she feels like talking something to me and promised she wont bother me again once i move out. This is the 4th day she texted me since the day she said she didn't have anything to say. I was intrigued and later in the day i texted her giving an ultimatum saying that i did not wanted any of this. However on july 6th the relationship will come to an end and we need to stick to official divorce matters unless she calls off divorce. However this one last time i would allow her to talk to me. Whether she wishes to talk or not i wished her the very best in life. That evening she saw the text and called me furious and said she will abide by what i said. She has many questions in mind she will never get answers to. She challenged me if i ever liked her. She asked why i took her to parents to get her insulted. She said me and my parents indirectly forced her in this divorce although she didnt want it. She didn't give a chance for me to speak up and hung up. I texted after a while that she was crazy in saying such things and if she wanted to make proper decisions with good mindset she is welcome to call me and talk like adults. She said she is left with nothing to say as I decided that today was the last call. I reiterated about talking like adults to make proper decisions. She texted that she wants to abide by her decision and she will never contact me again and expected me to do the same. I did not respond back.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)