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[Jlh]

I don't know what stage this is for a LBS but I'm starting to get annoyed with how H is so casual regarding when he speaks to me. He also tells me when he's coming by and up until now I thought I was ok with it, but he will tell me a time, come by later or earlier than he says, stay long enough to tuck our son in bed and then he leaves, usually not before making small talk with me for a bit.

My question is, is it usual for MLC spouses to act so carefree and casual regarding how they act and speak to the LBS This is ridiculous. I'm polite and everything but he comes int he door and waits for me to greet him first if I'm in the living room of kitchen and hear him come in. I'm trying to be patient but I need some space too. This telling me he's coming by in a bossy tone and then asking meekly afterward it its alright to come over like I'll bite his head off is getting old. I'm not keeping his kid from him at all and when I do try to talk to him he clams up and practically runs out the door to not talk about anything. I just want to know about visitation plans.

I just don't get this guy at all, is this typical behavior for MLCers? One minute he wants to talk to me and then next he acts like I'm a stranger who will do anything to avoid me. We have a kid together and I cant just ignore him but it's hard to distance when he's acting like this.