[quote=Steve85]I haven't seen a definitive guide on dealing with the WW, and I saw a post how you should not validate a WW like you would a WAW. So I'm confused there.
I think sandi says this. However, I think that is only when there is open disrespect. Don't validate open disrespect. I won't speak for sandi, but I think in your sitch, listening and validating is the key. And do no mention the A. That is pressure and pursuit. Either it will die, or she will leave you for OM. More than likely the first. Now, if her infidelity is not something that you can get over, then you should move forward with D.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
