Maybe she wants you to initiate maybe that was always the problem?

Also maybe she just wants sex now and take it one day at a time and see where it goes not a full fledged R which maybe she thinks is what you want?

Sorry a bunch of mindreading

M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18