MY TRAGIC WAW STORY PART VIII

[joejoe1]

It hurts,

Come on man! Your ExW is throwing herself at you and you are still DBing her. I think you have passed DB. You DBed her already and did a great job.

She invited you over for tequila and then let you sleep over. She is showing clears signs of wanting more than just a friendship. But you are behaving like you want her as a friend.(we know you want more, but what do you think she is perceiving from your actions?) She text you and you wait to text her back. Why? Why are you waiting, that's a DBing technique not a recon one. She's reaching for you and you aren't moving towards her. If you keep up what you are doing in my opinion she might give up.

You are waiting for her to tell you she wants to be with you (outright), well what woman really says that. Not many. They tell you through their actions.

She left you and now you are waiting on her to tell you she wants to be back with you.

I think you need to ask her if she wants to be with you, because it's what you want. If she says no, then she was going to say no anyway. She has had 4 years to decide if she wanted to be back in your life and wanting you back in hers. If she didn't want you back in her life, she wouldn't be around now.

If we go off what you post, and we go off your W actions, which is a huge philsophy around here, then your W actions is speaking wanting you back in her life.

Pls stop DBing your W and treat her like a person you want to date. She wants you, start acting like you want her.