Moving past the WAW-MCL to a stronger me

[Davide]

Stander, I think you crossed the line from 2x4 to openly hostile.

We both belong to the same climbing gym. I went to the gym at that particular time because it was a special class that was only offered then. I go there a lot. So does she. I didn't do it to see her. I have not tried to see her once since I left the house 6 weeks ago except for the one meeting we arranged to work out summer arrangements. I was surprised she left because she has never actively tried to avoid me like that before and she specifically told me that it would be no big deal if we ran into each other at the gym in an email weeks ago. I don't know if you just aren't reading my sitch, but to characterize my actions as stalkerish is offensive.

I do not see the need to update her on my workout routine. It changes, like it did in this case. In the past I have actively tried to avoid her, but at this point I would rather just do what works best for my schedule. I am not looking to run into her, but I have adjusted my life enough (moving out of the house, giving up the car) due to her issues.