I cannot work out if your W is wayward or disordered.
Whichever it is I think you should treat W as if she was wayward.
She is either angry for a reason she thinks is valid (she believes you are cheating) or its manipulation to blame you so she looks good on D. I think the latter.
But I am confused and if V is confused, it's confusing.
So sorry, I think I would be in a spiral of doom too if this was in my life.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW