Thanks Vanilla.

I was just thinking about my H's last text to me which was on May 12. He said "I am sorry that I did absolutely nothing to you. I am such a jerk."

I didn't answer him. Can ANY of you look at your spouse honestly and say you did absolutely NOTHING EVER to harm the marriage? We've been together 26 years...we literally grew into adulthood together.

What do you do with that?


M: 43, H: 44
Married 18 yrs, Together 26 yrs
S17, D15, D8, S6
Still living in MH