This by the way is the second session. The first session had S in tears as he was explaining to W how this was affecting him. He also mentioned that from Dad's coaching he's learned to Ste Goals and objectives. Always give 120% effort and to NEVER QUIT! He asked W what she's was trying to teach him by separating? She said she thinks God wants us to be happy and to strive for happiness. He replied that the only lesson he's learning fro W about this is to run from your problems.( WOW- I was impressed) One of the things I preach is to be prepared- when S pulled out this crumpled paper with scribbling on it I temporarily gasped thinking he threw things together. When it was finished- I said I was so proud of him for being vulnerable and honest and gave him a huge hug. He followed that up by saying- Are you proud enough of me to take me to McDonalds? LOL- Yep! he got what he wanted.
Guess I have to be the lighthouse- stable and unwavering in calmness.
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
