Fair enough. I get how that rush could be off putting. Interestingly I am 2 months separated and cannot file for D until 12 months post separation. But I am the one who has initiated nearly all those talks. When my W brought up buying a car it definitely triggered me as well.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
