Another update of not much change. Apart from H sleeping downstairs and no physical interaction we are doing everything together as a married couple would. He is planning jobs in our home and involving me in choosing flooring for a room we are updating, working on the garden together. He has initiated a meal out together and asked for me to also invite husbands mum (who I get on with) which I did and we all had a lovely time, it all felt natural. We have been better doing parenting together, discussing with each other before decisions are being made. I have been away from work yesterday and today and he has gone back to been distant again on the phone, I will see what the atmosphere is like when I get home. We have had no R conversations at all since around February. Do I wait for him to initiate anything? What if he is waiting for me? Or is it best to just keep the status quo?
M: 17 T:17 Me:42 H:48 BD 23/12/2017 H says ‘I don’t want to be married’ D 17 D 15, D 13, S 10, S 10
