Jim, there is nothing in DBing against pleasant interactions. The key is that you don't initiate those interactions. Let her come to you. Otherwise it is pursuit and pressure. But when she initiates, for crying out loud, BE PLEASANT!! LOL Detachments is not being mean, or ignoring, or pouting. When you are pleasant with her when she initiates interaction THAT IS THE EPITOME OF BEING A MAN A WOMAN WOULD BE A FOOL TO LEAVE.

I really think the term detachment confuses most LBSs. That is why I prefer the term differentiation, or self-differentiation. It really is about finding happiness internally, not externally. It is about not giving anyone the power over your mental well-being. That you will be happy, healthy, pleasant, upbeat, and optimistic no matter what anyone else (including your S) says or does.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018