J9, I guess I'm not pursuing, I'm not pressuring, but I am still allowing pleasant interactions between us to happen. Leaving the light on, so to speak. I don't know if I'm rationalizing, and letting her have her cake and eat it, though, and whether that makes me less than a man a woman would be a fool to leave.


On a related topic, I'm meeting W for lunch to go over dividing our assets before we meet with the mediator on Friday, where we will hopefully come up with a negotiated settlement. We're really just going to discuss the value of her house, so it shouldn't be contentious. We'll see.


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17