Sometimes it's hard to believe how far gone they really are. My turning point was when I heard my EW talking about other men.

I would go to the gym whenever you want and I would not tell her when you are going to be there. I would also not say anything about her turning around and leaving you in the rain. I wouldn't want her to know it bothered me. Make a mental note to yourself and keep moving forward.

Just my thoughts.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018