Yes I think the IC I work with is very good with her observations. To her FEAR is the real feeling behind W's anger. Fear of being vulnerable, fear of losing me seem to be big ones. Given as I've stated of my W's personality even if I wanted to R, hard to see that as even a possibility. As for Plan A, heck she may already have one. I've no idea beyond what she has "said". If I knew she did, heck it would have been MUCH easier a long time ago for me to walk.
Perhaps it was/is God's will that she NOT find someone else.
