I haven't told her crap.

I give her a heads-up when I am coming by the house to get the dog or the car, but that's it.

I do not want to respond with anger. I do not want to be reactive. I am still considering what the best detached reaction would be.

W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019