Speaking of goal setting and working on self, WAH seems to be exactly on that track. He has in fact said 'after I let you go I am more productive' - feels he is a better father and spends more quality time with kids, I do not agree to this because he is angry more often at D3 - has lost weight before and after BD and maintains a good diet - extremely engaged with house hold chores, cooks, cleans which is new territory for him Is this typical of a WAS? why would they need a D to become a better person or work on themselves? I have been acknowledging everything he does around the house and get a grunt in return. Although I did not do this until now, I have finally let him be independent with all this since he seems to be wanting it his own way. Am I handling this well?
