Hi Maika, just catching up on your sitch. I am sure all of us will play scenarios in our mind of all the what ifs for ages to come, showing Ss their place, them realizing what a huge mistake they have made, R happening dramatically, us being in a place of not wanting them any longer, moving on without them etc but only time will tell I guess. Glad to know you feel the bond between you and the kids is stronger now, at the end of the day we can only hope to have them as unscathed as possible with this whole D debacle.