Originally Posted By: ballast
morning bump...does anyone have any suggestions on how I handle continued anger from W beyond staying detached? somewhere I had read that this was a "phase" for a WW...just trying to learn more about this H88L phase I'm going through...


"I'm sorry you feel so angry, you must be very upset".

Originally Posted By: ballast
thanks steve...when W has brought up the imaginary OW, I have just ignored...I wonder would it be better to say instead "that is not true" each time? better to let it be or anytime said, countered.


"You're putting words in my mouth".

"I'm not sure why you would say that".


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.