I would add only to do it if you can emotionally handle it. I went to a party early on in my sitch, about a month after my EW moved out, that my W was at. She ignored me the entire time, sat with all of her girlfriends making pouty faces and taking selfies, acted like she was about 25 years old. I ended up staying for too long and I should have immediately left but I didn't recognize the situation and what I had got myself into until the next morning. When I overheard her and her friends talking about other guys I froze. The next morning I felt weak and a complete Beta.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018