Originally Posted By: Davide
I could do whatever I want but almost all of my GALing friends will be at the party. Also, I would never ignore her. I am not down for rudeness. I would say hi, give a quick hug and head to hang with other people far from her. Still worried that it looks pusuit-ish.


You're not ignoring her, you just have things to do IMO. If she needs, something she is capable of asking, right? Why the hug? I think her getting affection from you without living up to her commitment is a problem for you.

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It seems like you have a lot more contact. I go days at a time without any and the little there is is about the dog or Amazon deliveries. Nothing substantive and I am not pushing.


I do have more contact it seems. Not that it's made any difference yet. But did you move back in, or not planning on that until Aug? I couldn't figure that out from your sig.


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